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		<title>The Problem is the Answer: The Finance Issue</title>
		<link>http://123untangle.com/2011/03/the-problem-is-the-answer-the-finance-issue/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Mar 2011 15:42:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#160; Mind the Piggy Bank Dominique&#8217; Reese, Financial Adviser and Educator, CEO CommuniTree LLC. Parents, does your child ask for toys, games, clothes, food, while youre out taking care of business? If your child is like most, your answer is yes! In today&#8217;s times, it is becoming ever more important to use these moments as [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Problem is the Answer: The Romance Issue</title>
		<link>http://123untangle.com/2011/02/the-problem-is-the-answer-the-romance-issue/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Feb 2011 17:39:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is Your Brain.  This is Your Brain on Romance. Bathabile K. S. Mthombeni, J.D. Imagine the scene: a group of women sits around a living room commiserating with one of their own who has just experienced the worst break up ever. Between spoonfuls of ice cream she sobs, “That jerk! How did I get [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Problem is the Answer: The &#8220;Out with the Old&#8221; Issue</title>
		<link>http://123untangle.com/2011/01/the-problem-is-the-answer-the-out-with-the-old-issue/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Jan 2011 16:48:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Letting Go of the Bands that Tie Bathabile K. S. Mthombeni, J.D. My wedding ring has been in the pocket of a handbag at the back of my closet since my divorce.  It seems to be an unremarkable gold band but, to me, it has Lord of the Rings written all over it.  After nearly [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Problem is the Answer: The (no)Stress Issue</title>
		<link>http://123untangle.com/2010/12/the-problem-is-the-answer-the-nostress-issue/</link>
		<comments>http://123untangle.com/2010/12/the-problem-is-the-answer-the-nostress-issue/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Dec 2010 10:34:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>untan123</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Family Relationships on Holiday A Facebook analysis found that in the United States, relationship statuses change most during two times of the year.  The first is the period between Thanksgiving and New Years.  The second is during the month of February – just after Valentine’s day.  Knowing this, we have dedicated this edition of Untangled [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What is Your Conflict Style?</title>
		<link>http://123untangle.com/2010/06/what-is-your-conflict-style/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Jun 2010 01:10:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>untan123</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In my blog post, The Conflict Doctor is In, I noted that avoidance is a common default approach for people in dispute.  I also noted that avoiding conflict often allows disputes to grow out of control so that something that begins as a simple misunderstanding becomes a raging war.  Avoidance may be a default approach [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Conflict Doctor is In</title>
		<link>http://123untangle.com/2010/06/the-conflict-doctor-is-in/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jun 2010 11:43:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Why not address conflict from the beginning, when it is most manageable? We are told that getting to a medical professional early on during an illness helps to ensure a quicker and more successful recovery.  It just makes sense.  Getting to a conflict specialist can do the same for people in dispute.]]></description>
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		<title>Let Go of the Nut</title>
		<link>http://123untangle.com/2010/05/let-go-of-the-nut/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 16 May 2010 21:42:28 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[Self Advocacy]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[How to catch a monkey: Find a forest populated by monkeys.  Find a round gourd.  Open a hole in the gourd.  Make it large enough for a monkey’s empty hand to fit through.  Put something the monkey wants into the gourd.  A kola nut will do.  The kola nut rattles around in the gourd, making [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How to Say No</title>
		<link>http://123untangle.com/2010/05/how-to-say-no/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 May 2010 22:24:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>untan123</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Self Advocacy]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Saying no when you feel pressured to say yes can become much easier if you remember the following simple words: Position, Interest, Need. A position is what you feel you deserve.  An Interest is what getting what you feel you deserve will do for you.  A Need is the reason why that interest is important [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Inigo Montoya Effect</title>
		<link>http://123untangle.com/2010/05/the-inigo-montoya-effect/</link>
		<comments>http://123untangle.com/2010/05/the-inigo-montoya-effect/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 May 2010 22:22:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>untan123</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In the film &#8220;The Princess Bride&#8221;, Inigo Montoya, a despondent yet valiant swordsman sworn to avenge his father&#8217;s murder, joins an equally valiant adventurer named Westley in his quest to rescue Buttercup, Westley&#8217;s childhood sweetheart, from an evil king.  After many adventures, Inigo and Westley, joined by Fezzik, the Giant, successfully enter the king&#8217;s palace.  [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why Mediation?</title>
		<link>http://123untangle.com/2010/04/why-mediation/</link>
		<comments>http://123untangle.com/2010/04/why-mediation/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Apr 2010 14:08:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>untan123</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Why put your well-being and best-interests into other people&#8217;s hands?  Why wait years for your disputes to be settled when they could be resolved in months, weeks or even hours?  Why resolve your private affairs in public, or spend a fortune gambling on who has the best lawyer?  Why make your only options win or [...]]]></description>
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